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Are You Always That Extreme?!? – CBT Phone Sex

By: Domina Cinara - March 10th, 2010

 
I’m a very selfish woman when it comes to my sexual activities.
This includes the dominatrix phone sex calls that I do.
I enjoy using men… and my own enjoyment always comes first.
But then again… my slave boys always love the way I use them.

CBT Phone Sex

(By: Domina Cinara) I wrote a post a few days ago entitled – “He Said He Could Handle Brutal CBT… He Was Wrong”… and boy, what a reaction that one has gotten ~laughs~.

I’m not at all surprised or disappointed… both in terms of the number of people contacting me about the story, and the content of their messages. People always freak out a bit over things like that… but the “freaking out” is almost always mixed with clear fascination and sexual excitement. They act shocked but want to know oh-so-much more… telling me that my femdom stories make them both aroused and afraid ~laughs~.

Let me clear things up a little…

With something like a CBT phone sex call, things get broken up into two basic categories… those that want to “do” it… and those that want to fantasize about doing it.

In the first case, the sessions I do as a professional dominatrix are all consensual. Whether face-to-face or phone sex, they’d have to be. That’s part of what professional means in this context. Some like it extreme… some like it soft… what I do with each reflects what we both like and what I recognize them capable of handling, within the limits of what we’ve prior discussed (sometimes what they’re truly capable of handling is actually much less than the limits they thought they could… part of being a good dominatrix and a professional is the ability to recognize this quickly, adjust the scene accordingly, and still make it excellent).

In CBT phone sex or any kind of femdom torture, a line of limitation is drawn by the simple fact that whatever occurs is obviously self inflicted. Consent is a constant factor, as is communication since we’re on the phone and all actions must be expressed. I like to make my sessions intense and exciting, but like I’ve already said, I read and recognize the appropriate limits of my callers and stay within them. With those that are new, I start off easy… you get the best long term results from slave training that is well paced.

In the second case, many phone sex callers aren’t into actually doing what excites them… they love talking about it but wouldn’t really do it. They’re more interested in the role-playing of shared fantasies that phone sex makes possible, especially when it comes to what falls under extreme femdom BDSM.

For example… last week a guy I haven’t spoken to since I moved contacted me. Last time we talked we did a CBT phone sex session that got a bit heavy. He was telling me that he still remembered how at the end of the call I carved my name into the side of his cock with a razor blade. Obviously I didn’t actually do that, we were on the phone… but the cock and ball torture scene we did was intense and he still thinks about it ~grinz~

One of the best parts about dominatrix phone sex – which is also one of the main reasons I got involved with it – is this opportunity to explore all kinds of different extreme fantasies with people who otherwise would have little or no outlet for what they dream about. I’ve played out all kinds of fetish scenes with callers that have been amazing to explore. Some reflect things I’ve actually done in real life… while others hit the dark places in my mind that I love to get off to but could never realistically, or legally, touch ~laughs~.

So stop worrying about how you want to be with me so badly… but don’t know if you can handle it. I can handle you just fine… no matter what you’re level of experience. I know you love this shit, and more importantly… I know what I’m doing.

The femdom stories that I tell tend towards the more extreme things I do because those stories are the ones most interesting to tell… and I know those are the ones that most of you most want to hear… cause you’re a fucking bunch of sick pups ~grinz~. But then I guess that makes me the sick bitch ~winks~

Speaking of sick… of course everything I’ve been talking about in this post refers to the professional side of what I do… I live my private life by a different set of rules ~smiles~.

 
PS – I wouldn’t really call the contents of that CBT phone sex call all *that* extreme ~laughs~ The human body can take much more punishment than that.

 
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Many men have extreme fantasies about female domination and sexual torture.
They love BDSM stories that take things to the most exciting and dangerous limits.
But would never actually go that far in real life.

Funny thing… many think the stories of what I do in real life are extreme ~laughs~
They’d drop dead with fright if they knew the kinds of things I dream about.

Listed Under: Cock and Ball Torture, Dominatrix Phone Sex
Tags: Brutal CBT, Dominatrix, Phone Sex
Comments (2)

2 Responses to “Are You Always That Extreme?!? – CBT Phone Sex”

1. stiefelknecht Says:
   March 11th, 2010 at 1:57 AM
   
   

   I know what you´re sayin, mistress. There´s a big difference between fantasy and reality. I remember emailing my dominatrix what I would endure for her and whatever she could do to me. Well, once meeting her…I recognized I was wayyyy over my head. That petite, beautiful and playful lady bound, stomped and beaten the living hell out of me in no time and then put a plastic bag over my head and sealed it. I can´t remember I ever been this afraid before. Of course, she was a pro and knew perfectly what I could handle (if I have to) and what she could do to me. Looking back this femdom torture session were frightening, tense but also very rewarding and satisfying. It also showed me that you should be very careful what you´re wishing for.*grins*

   Domina Cinara, I really love your stories (the most extreme ones the most) and I hope you continue to post them, despite some shocked responses and negative feedback, pleeeeaaase.

   And BTW I´m curious to know just a little about the different set of rules.

   Bowing down to ya, your bootjack

2. Domina Cinara Says:
   March 11th, 2010 at 6:07 PM
   
   

   You misunderstand… I like and expect the shocked responses ~laughs~… and as I said, their shock over what I’ve written is always mixed with excitement and interest… nothing negative about it.

   My clarifications are stated to avoid being “type-cast” as strictly an “extreme dominatrix”… not out of any concern for “audience reaction”. I’m a human being… I like all kinds of shit within the circle of femdom BDSM. I’m not a single category or a flavor. I don’t much like limiting labels.

   From time to time one has to remind people of this since they have the bad tendency to want to “box” others away under simple titles.

   Also, there’s a difference between my professional life and private life.

   Professionally I do all kinds of scenes, ranging from soft to very heavy.
   The type is dependent upon a mix of what the guy/girl is looking for / ready for… and what I want to do.

   In my private life, it’s only about what I want to do… and I admit that I tend towards the extreme ~smiles~

   So far, I’ve gotten no negative feedback on anything I’ve written here… and even if I ever did it would change nothing. I don’t cater to the frail sensibilities of the weak.

   My old phone sex blog got negative comments once in a while… usually some guy yelling that men are dominant and all that Stupid shit ~grinz~. But that was when that site had gotten big and there were thousands of people visiting every day. When you’re getting that much daily traffic you’re going to get some idiots. Same will happen here as this blog grows.

   As for “different set of rules”… in my professional life I carry myself as a professional dominatrix should, in terms of limits, safety, proper practices and consensual play. Same holds true for phone sex, especially when something like self inflicted CBT phone sex is involved. But if what we are doing is strictly role play of extreme fantasies occurring only in the mind, then anything goes.

   In my private life I do whatever the hell I want.

   I’m into TPE (total power exchange) so with slaves that have been my actual face-to-face property – like my puppy girl who lives with me – consent is given at the start of the relationship and then no longer an issue. These slaves are usually into BDSM as heavily as I am or at least close, so there’s no problems in terms of what I do to them. Besides, property has value… I don’t damage my property.

   Not everything in my private life is TPE… there are people I’ve just played with… slaves I’ve swapped with friends… toys found for a night in a BDSM club… fetish virgins I’ve “popped”… etc… all of that is moment to moment.

   BUT… then there are things like the story I’ve been telling about what I did to that guy in the park ~smiles~. That’s something totally different. He had no idea what I had planned for him… I just set him up and used him… because I wanted to.

   I like forced femdom sex… abduction… bondage and suspension… cruel leather whips… brutal CBT and ballbusting… strapon sex of course… etc. Everyone has their sexual desires… difference is, mine are dark ones, and I do feed them.

   Times I’ve done things like that, I usually pick someone I don’t know who acts like an asshole… then in my mind they deserve what they get. I’ve always been able to turn off my conscience… hell, I don’t really even think it’s wrong.

   I’m smart in how I go about doing such things when I want to cross the line… I’ve never done permanent damage to any of them or gone “too far”. I’ve come close… probably too close a couple times… but I’m a sadist… I enjoy what I am and have no regrets.

   And when I write about those things here I intentionally shift the details a bit to cover my butt. There are many things I’ve done, participated in or have seen that I’ll never talk about, it would be stupid of me to do so in a public place ~grinz~.

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