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By: Domina Cinara - April 26th, 2010
I take a very hands on approach to the training of a male sex slave.
Men are unruly little boys at heart… and bad boys do need spanking.
A woman’s long leather glove leaves such a lovely imprint on a bare male ass.
(By: Domina Cinara) Slave training is a subject I am very well versed in, having handled numerous male and female pets in both my professional and private life. I firmly agree with the concept of giving a slave a good spanking or whipping as an introduction to their training (which form chosen depends on the experience and character of the given slave). A good, hard spanking done the very first day sends a clear message to the subject, drawing a line between what they were and what they are going to become.
With this in mind I decided to record the following femdom audio. The subject of male spanking is an amusing one to me, so this serves as more than just an introduction to those of you wishing to submit… it also puts a nasty good smile on my face -
Free Erotic Audio – Spanking My New Male Sex Slave
Nothing draws the line between free and slave in a man’s mind faster,
Than the application of a strong female hand to his bare bottom.
And I’ll be wearing a pair of long leather gloves when I spank you.
I love the sound of leather against a man’s soft flesh.
Femdom spanking is much more than just slave punishment. As a female sexual sadist I enjoy seeing my pets suffer for my pleasure. The key to discipline though, is balancing your own pleasure with effective instruction – if the dominatrix enjoys it too much and apply it too often outside the bounds of slave punishment, male spanking can become “routine”, losing it’s effectiveness as a means of correction.
Check out the rest of my Femdom Erotica section to listen to more erotic audio clips I’ve recorded… you’ll also find femdom stories I’ve written, orgasm denial assignments, and sexy dominatrix pictures of beautiful me. I’m always adding more to my diary, so check back here often.
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There are all different kinds of punishment that can be used when training a slave.
Orgasm denial and chastity are particularly effective means of handling a male.
And the female slave reacts wonderfully to rope bondage and the use of a leather whip.
But, simple as it is, good old fashioned femdom spanking never loses its charm.
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Tags: Femdom Audio, Femdom Erotica, Long Leather Gloves, Male Spanking, Slave Training
Comments (3)
April 27th, 2010 at 5:44 PM
That was an incredibly hot audio, Domina. I bet every submissive listening to it fantasizes about being put over your knee for a good spanking. But you are talking about spanking as punishment or discipline, not the wish fulfillment of some submissive. So I guess my question is, what do you do to make sure the spanking is real punishment, and not just the fantasy fulfillment of the submissive? Is there some sign you look for, etc?
April 27th, 2010 at 7:56 PM
With most everything in BDSM, there is a sort of paradox… and not just with “punishment” being something the slave often enjoys. (Hell, think about what “slave” often means in reality with some, especially compared to the true definition of the word and its historical examples.)
Orgasm denial, like I’ve said, can be a very effective means of control and discipline for a male sex slave… but, at the same time… said slave usually gets enjoyment out of it, since the very discipline and punishment he is suffering, is very arousing to him.
Male spanking is something I enjoy ~grinz~… and yes, most slave boys obviously enjoy it too. Often it will be “fantasy fulfillment” to some degree… but that doesnt have to be a problem – that fulfillment itself can be manipulated and used against the slave. If he enjoys it, it’s yet another thing that can be played with… denied… teased… twisted… rewarded… etc.
The key really is in the manipulation of a situation you create and control.
Yes the slave may enjoy the spanking… but the dominatrix is the one who decides when it will happen… how it will happen… how long it will occur… how abruptly it may stop… and what will happen after it… etc.
And most importantly… she determines what surrounds the situation… the context, atmosphere and attitude… “fantasy fulfillment” depends on more than just the spanking itself. There are ways to very easily suck the fulfillment out of any punishment fantasy to truly make it effective discipline… just by changing your attitude and letting the slave know you are truly disappointed/unhappy with him. (Admittedly… while this particular angle is effective with men, it is even more so with female slaves).
The single event of the spanking isnt the whole… its part of a well constructed web being weaved around the slave.
Besides… there is a certain point where anything enjoyable will cease being enjoyed… it you do it in a way that is not enjoyable.
April 29th, 2010 at 12:44 AM
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