CBT Phone Sex

(By: Domina Cinara) I wrote a post a few days ago entitled – “He Said He Could Handle Brutal CBT… He Was Wrong”… and boy, what a reaction that one has gotten ~laughs~.

I’m not at all surprised or disappointed… both in terms of the number of people contacting me about the story, and the content of their messages. People always freak out a bit over things like that… but the “freaking out” is almost always mixed with clear fascination and sexual excitement. They act shocked but want to know oh-so-much more… telling me that my femdom stories make them both aroused and afraid ~laughs~.

Let me clear things up a little…

With something like a CBT phone sex call, things get broken up into two basic categories… those that want to “do” it… and those that want to fantasize about doing it.

In the first case, the sessions I do as a professional dominatrix are all consensual. Whether face-to-face or phone sex, they’d have to be. That’s part of what professional means in this context. Some like it extreme… some like it soft… what I do with each reflects what we both like and what I recognize them capable of handling, within the limits of what we’ve prior discussed (sometimes what they’re truly capable of handling is actually much less than the limits they thought they could… part of being a good dominatrix and a professional is the ability to recognize this quickly, adjust the scene accordingly, and still make it excellent).

In CBT phone sex or any kind of femdom torture, a line of limitation is drawn by the simple fact that whatever occurs is obviously self inflicted. Consent is a constant factor, as is communication since we’re on the phone and all actions must be expressed. I like to make my sessions intense and exciting, but like I’ve already said, I read and recognize the appropriate limits of my callers and stay within them. With those that are new, I start off easy… you get the best long term results from slave training that is well paced.

In the second case, many phone sex callers aren’t into actually doing what excites them… they love talking about it but wouldn’t really do it. They’re more interested in the role-playing of shared fantasies that phone sex makes possible, especially when it comes to what falls under extreme femdom BDSM.

For example… last week a guy I haven’t spoken to since I moved contacted me. Last time we talked we did a CBT phone sex session that got a bit heavy. He was telling me that he still remembered how at the end of the call I carved my name into the side of his cock with a razor blade. Obviously I didn’t actually do that, we were on the phone… but the cock and ball torture scene we did was intense and he still thinks about it ~grinz~

One of the best parts about dominatrix phone sex – which is also one of the main reasons I got involved with it – is this opportunity to explore all kinds of different extreme fantasies with people who otherwise would have little or no outlet for what they dream about. I’ve played out all kinds of fetish scenes with callers that have been amazing to explore. Some reflect things I’ve actually done in real life… while others hit the dark places in my mind that I love to get off to but could never realistically, or legally, touch ~laughs~.

So stop worrying about how you want to be with me so badly… but don’t know if you can handle it. I can handle you just fine… no matter what you’re level of experience. I know you love this shit, and more importantly… I know what I’m doing.

The femdom stories that I tell tend towards the more extreme things I do because those stories are the ones most interesting to tell… and I know those are the ones that most of you most want to hear… cause you’re a fucking bunch of sick pups ~grinz~. But then I guess that makes me the sick bitch ~winks~

Speaking of sick… of course everything I’ve been talking about in this post refers to the professional side of what I do… I live my private life by a different set of rules ~smiles~.

 
PS – I wouldn’t really call the contents of that CBT phone sex call all *that* extreme ~laughs~ The human body can take much more punishment than that.

 
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Many men have extreme fantasies about female domination and sexual torture.
They love BDSM stories that take things to the most exciting and dangerous limits.
But would never actually go that far in real life.

Funny thing… many think the stories of what I do in real life are extreme ~laughs~
They’d drop dead with fright if they knew the kinds of things I dream about.

Brutal CBT

(By: Strapon Domina Cinara) I thought I’d tell you the story of this dominatrix phone sex call I did last night. Think of it as more of a short cautionary tale than truly one of my femdom stories… a lesson taught and now shared with the class ~grinz~.

So, this guy gets on the phone and immediately tells me he is into brutal CBT and “all kinds of extreme femdom shit.”

Oh, really ~smiles so sweet~

Now, when I do cock and ball torture… I keep things within limits that fit the male slave I’m with. If he tells me he’s new to CBT, we start off easy… if he says he’s experienced, then I test him to see where he’s really at before taking his claims seriously.

What one person thinks is extreme, may be far different from what another does… and if that other person’s definition is a lot more extreme than yours, you’re in for one hell of an eye opening education ~laughs~.

Any time torture of any form is involved in a femdom session, the dominatrix has to find her own answers regarding the limits of a slave she isn’t familiar with. The line he draws is not the limit… you pull it back even more and see what’s really up before pushing.

But the guy on this particular phone sex call, was all kinds of cocky… big mouth bragging about how he could “handle the most extreme cock and ball torture Domina Cinara can dish out.”

Oh, REALLY ~smiles sweeter~

You want to mouth off… fine… we’ll see who laughs last.

Seems someone needed to be taught a little lesson… in femdom ballbusting… in humility… and most of all, in the proper way to talk to a Domina.

If we had been face to face I would have shown him very quickly just how brutal CBT can be… with him bound and gagged, and me beating and tearing his cock and balls to shreds.

Seriously, you think that little squiggly shit you’ve got between your legs is going to survive the two fisted abuse of a cruel dominatrix in long leather gloves who doesn’t give a crap in hell how loud you scream!?! ~laughs~ And I haven’t even broken out the thigh high boots that are the other half of my favored cock and ball torture ensemble. Once you see those leather clad long legs coming to hurt you, you’ll fast admit the error of your ways… that and probably piss yourself.

But since we were on the phone, I was limited to what I could order him to do to himself… and since we were on the phone, he could stop whenever his full of shit pussy ass couldn’t take it anymore.

We started the femdom CBT off simple… rope bondage around the penis and testicles… sack tied up nice and tight with the bottom half of the cock wrapped and constricted. And of course, I had to have him slap that small package around a bit after he was done, just to make sure the cock and ball bondage would hold ~smiles~

Then I jumped ahead to the sandpaper… can’t have a messy little penis now, can we? A piece of sandpaper, vigorously applied to his cock and balls, slowly removed every offending hair, along with the top layer of skin.

This was followed by a few hard smacks to the testicles with a bare hand… then more than a few harder smacks to the head of the cock with a wooden spoon (had to work with what he had on hand)… and closing with half a dozen ballbusting smacks directly to each testicle with the handle.

Next, a substantial quantity of cayenne pepper mixed with just enough water to create a paste. Paste then applied to freshly sandpapered cock and balls.

Wait for it… wait for it… and yes, such lovely sounds emanate from the male vocal chords when the burn sets in ~grinz~

~turns the sarcasm on~ But that’s not enough… of course not… not for a guy who’s into “brutal CBT” and says he “can handle the most extreme cock and ball torture Domina Cinara can dish out.”

Leftover cayenne paste repeatedly forced into the penis until – what he claimed was “a tablespoon” – had been forced down the shaft. Yeah, right… “tablespoon”… my sweet shaven cunt.

But now this was where we started to have some difficulty.

Prior to this he had gone along with things pretty well. There was some hesitation during the wooden spoon ballbusting… and I heard the first hints of fear in his sweet gasps of pain when the pepper burn kicked in all over his privates. But when the paste was forced into his cock, that’s when the truth of this blowhard was fully exposed… just as I already knew, he wasn’t near as extreme as his babbling bravado claimed.

What a bunch of whining – “Oh, Domina… isn’t that enough… oh my god, this is killing me… oh, please… there’s so much in there… it‘s burning so bad”… blah, blah, blah. And this wasn’t even close to the kind of brutal CBT that gets my sadistic side happy… not by a long shot.

I told him to shut up and be thankful I wasn’t there… that if I was, I’d take the spike heel of my thigh high boot and ram it down his penis, shoving the pepper in as far as it would go.

And of course this was when I finally let loose with the insults.

Up until then I’d said nothing about his tough guy claims. I just went along with the cock and ball torture session somewhat methodically, waiting until the moment I wanted arrived. And now that it had, I ripped into him fully… mocking his bogus claims of being such an experienced femdom CBT player, able to handle anything I could dish out.

And once that male pride had been kicked by a female, he was bound to get into more trouble… it always goes that way, and it’s so easy to fuck with. When I threw his words at him, of course he had to go on… didn’t get much farther though ~laughs~. I decided to drop the hammer on him, literally… as I crashed that inflated ego down.

Counting the number of times the hammer hit the nails… I’d say he maybe got one in as far as I wanted, a second about half way, and a third not really at all. Then he gave up… begging forgiveness as he admitted he was a stupid male slave that liked to talk shit about brutal CBT… with his scrotum painfully nailed to a board.

But the story doesn’t end there. As punishment I made him rip the nails out – ah, what lovely screams!!! ~smiles dreamy~ – and he had to buy the right to remove each one ~laughs~ $200 each. I wanted to torture him more but he was crying enough already, and he’d learned his lesson plenty.

I mean really… what did this idiot think was going to happen to him, especially when we’re talking about brutal CBT? And truth be told, what I did was what he was hoping for anyway. I have no problem knocking down a man who is trying to bait me, so long as it’s worth my time and I enjoy doing it ~laughs~. As much as he cried and got more than he expected, he loved every bit of it.

He’s in orgasm denial right now – else he’d still be jerking off to what I did to him. When he heals a little, he’ll begin his training under me at a level fitting the sort of pathetic crybaby slave he is.

 
Here endeth the CBT story… don’t get cocky with a dominatrix who gets off on sadism… especially when your cock and balls are involved.

 
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To both masochist and sadist, the thought of brutal CBT is exciting.
But it’s not just hurting men that is so enjoyable… so very enjoyable ~laughs~
It’s also training the man, building him to take more and more extreme femdom torture.

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Cock and Ball Torture

(By: Strapon Domina Cinara) There are so many lovely phrases in the English language, for example… cock and ball torture… mmhhhmmm… say it slow and it sounds like Christmas ~laughs~. Wonderful presents wrapped up in a tight little package, ready to be torn apart by a happy young dominatrix, reveling in the brutal joy of unrestrained sadism… aaahhhhh ~smiles~

I had this guy ask me what the difference is between femdom CBT and ballbusting. I think the names make it somewhat clear, but since this is a subject I love, and a favorite “hobby” of mine, I thought I’d write a little about it.

First off, cock and ball torture comes in many different forms, as does it’s close relative, ballbusting. It can range from mild methods like teasing and tickling with long fingernails to the point the slave can’t take it anymore… to the most brutal and extreme kicking and punching you can imagine. The point is not just the infliction of pain through torture, but to prey on the vulnerability of the male genitalia… more specifically… the female preying on that vulnerability, creating an intense atmosphere of mixed fear and helplessness.

Technically, one could say that ballbusting falls under the general umbrella of cock and ball torture, because the point is much the same – the first being a “type” of the second. But I break them into two categories since the former is more specific in form and target than CBT, and in fetish circles this distinction is noted. To give a very short explanation of the difference…

Femdom CBT – being more refined forms of cock and ball torture ranging from soft erotic teasing to the direct infliction of extreme pain, and usually involving cruel, hands on treatment with a wide variety of devices employed (I like to slip into a pair of long leather gloves when the sadism gets serious).

Femdom Ballbusting – being the more brutal, savage assault on the male genitalia, (the specific focus being on the balls, hence the name… often the cock isn’t a target at all, but merely “collateral damage” ~laughs~) usually involving groin kicking, hard punching and slapping, and possibly direct hitting with sticks, heels, leather riding crops, canes, etc. (When I put on a pair of thigh high boots the male groin becomes a magnet to my legs and feet ~laughs~).

Both enable the dominatrix to provoke a wonderfully rich variety of screams, sobs, and pleas for mercy from her victim.

Bondage is an often used possibility, especially in more extreme ballbusting sessions where the male slave is bound with his legs spread far apart for easier access. But in all cases, the more helpless the slave is made to feel, the greater the psychological effect on him. Bondage can greatly amplify this.

Is it dangerous? Yes… which is part of what builds that intense atmosphere. You’re fucking with a very sensitive part of the body… if you don’t know what you are doing, or you are flat out stupid, you can really hurt yourself. Thus – listen to your friggin dominatrix when she tells you what to watch for and avoid. Extreme ballbusting can easily damage a man, as can brutal CBT styles… but often the most risky techniques are those that limit or restrict blood circulation since the pain – which is the body’s warning signal – can greatly decrease if numbness sets in. And while numbness might not hurt a lot, the related consequences can cause permanent damage. I’ve heard some truly nightmarish femdom stories of cock and ball torture gone very bad. While extreme CBT stories may really turn you on… the line between fantasy and reality exists for a very good reason.

I’ll be writing a lot more about this subject in the future… this is enough for right now ~smiles~

 
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Cock and ball torture takes advantage of a very vulnerable part of the male body.
Exploiting it’s weakness to put the dominatrix in a very powerful position.
But I often like to push this even more… first through the use of bondage…
And then through the violation of another very vulnerable spot on a man…
His tight little asshole… forced open by my big, thick strapon.

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